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Friday, 30 October 2009

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    A Million Miles in a Thousand Years: What I Learned While Editing My Life
    By Donald Miller
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    Rhapsody out of the Blue

     I never cease to be amazed by people who can eat large breakfasts early in the morning and then charge off to work with all the energy of an ostrich on steroids. I generally debate for the next hr the virtues of either going back to bed or exercising off all the calories I just consumed.

     I had breakfast, early this morning, with one of my good friends hence the theorizing on large breakfasts. It was worth it I think. We went to this really cool southern café/quick stop /beer joint and I’ve added it to my “must see southern places” along with the local speedway and flee market.

     I’m pretty skippy bout my day ‘cause I have off and therefore have an entire day to myself. It’s supposed to rain and so I thought bout soaping down my car and parking it outside. Maybe I’ll sit inside and turn the windshield wipers on and watch the bubbles form and then disappear. Or maybe I’ll eat chocolate bars and write in my journal. I love days with this many hours and no pressing things to fill them.

     I worked a double shift yesterday and there’s something about going into a long day and knowing its going to be long vs. going into a normal shift thinking it will be over in a few hrs. The long goes faster then the short, strangely enough. I have a new theory due to something that happened at work yesterday. I could have a new theory every day of things that happen at work but I like this one. J It was 3 minutes until closing when a family walked in the door. I happen to like this family ‘cause I’ve waited on them before and they came to our church auction and for some reason, this made me like them. The kitchen staff didn’t like them and waved their spatulas at me when I told them they had an order.. The family ate and left and they tipped me as all good people do. But they left me more then last time.

     MY THEORY: When people come to the restaurant and cause an excess of inconvenience they do one of several things.

    1. Tip normally and pretend nothing unusual occured.

    2. Tip less and discourage any sense of obligation “Its not my fault my child makes huge messes. He’s just a baby”.

    3. Tip more. For these people I always hope that its not out of guilt but a sense of appreciation.

     Makes me wonder what I ignore, what I excuse, and what sort of strange subconscious things I do in penance,

     I hate halloween with a purple passion. And we will never accomplish world peace. On my way home today, I drove past at least two churches and both had “trunk or treat” signs. In fact, nearly every church I have driven past of late has such a sign and I find it repulsive. Does the church have to have a feel-good alternative to EVERYTHING? Peace is only found in Christ and his church- his church is offering a happy halloween alternative. As I said, world peace is not something we can accomplish and can only be a work of God.

     What do we ignore, excuse, or do in penance? Appreciate life today.

       Sonya

     

    I did get a blog spot and I prolly will be posting there now. If you want the addy let me know.

Wednesday, 14 October 2009

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    Through Painted Deserts: Light, God, and Beauty on the Open Road
    By Donald Miller
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     There are many things we do with out pausing to consider implications or practicabilities. Or maybe its just me. Anyway, in keeping with this unstable characteristic, I have decided to move back to Colorado. Tomorrow. Colorado; its brown, it has rocks-not trees, the people look AND smell organic, and plastic is evil. Its funny how a place like that can change who you are for the better and you actually come to love its strange quirks. So I’m not moving, not really, not now but I could and would if God said to drop it and go.

      This isn't a random post about CO, I was there visiting and it was a great visit. I sat on an airplane and talked with a fellow boarder for at least a ½ hr concerning the best boarding spots in CO . Funny, but my first snowmobile ride never got mentioned J . On arrival, I had a real Coloradan rescue me from the frozen springs airport (they had snow! I think its just cause I was visiting J.  I had the privilege of working at both stores and finding fun, shiny things. I saw several former customers one of whom accused me of being “very cute” cause she found me shopping in the goodwill. I told her I was visiting and could now shop at the goodwill.=)  Best of all, I got to talk and listen to many friends from my former life. And that’s why I would want to go back. Friendships are so important and CO is hard on friendships. But there’s always Heaven (or Texas if you’re a Texan) and there’s always people no matter which state I am. And I’m learning contentment in this one J

      I’m so excited bout this wkend. I get company and I get to go to a wedding. "I love weddings". And I’m still going to get rid of my xanga sometime. I’m going to find a nice blog spot with no nasty advertisements J  Loves and Hugs  Sonya

Thursday, 17 September 2009

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    Mighty to Save
    By Hillsong Live
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    Disease or Cure?

    Almost every day I get in my nice little car in my nice little uniform and drive to a nice little dinning establishment.I work with nice little people.Some of them are dying of this horrid disease.But we don't talk about that. Who wants to talk about a disease? We talk about things like the economy,health reform,or the perfect amount of sugar in sweet tea.Sometimes we argue over a cure for the "disease". But we'd rather not do that either.Who wants to talk about something painful,something that might be offensive? Lets just...not.Lets- pretend.

     There are at least 50 countries in this world where people talk about the disease but more importantly,those people are talking about the cure as well.And they're dying.Out of 276 countries in our world, approx. 100 are closed to Christianity.America is not one of these,not yet. And I cried-not because we may have our freedom taken away but because we most likely won't even care.

     This week, remember we have the cure and our God is mighty to SAVE!  Loves  Sonya

Monday, 03 August 2009

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    The Andy Griffith Show - The Complete Seventh Season
    By Andy Griffith, Ron Howard, Don Knotts, Frances Bavier, George Lindsey
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    Me,You,and Herb

    What is one thing we are all allotted every day,the one thing that bonds complete strangers and severs the closest of friends? Ponder this for several paragraphs if you please.

    I got a job that does not involve the medical field-we hope.I'm working at a very cool lil southern dinner-like restaurant and as a general rule,I love it.I love older people and I work with them quite a bit cause we all know that its the thin 72 yr old who eats the most fried chicken down south. Sometimes I miss the long afternoons spent here at home pondering any and all wayfaring theories and philosophies that my bored brain happened upon.Mostly however, I'm happy giving myself headaches by forgetting orders vs. wondering how unconditional love and accountability 'ought to work together,etc. :)

     I've learned many things at the restaurant(one of which would be the correct spelling of restaurant).An exhaustive list would include: Montezuma,the aztec emperor drank btwn 30-50 cups of chocolate every day; Jerseys give the best milk,mayfield will last the longest in your fridge and Aldi can't possibly be selling real milk for that price; The older the man,the bigger the truck; EVERYONE knows a mennonite; Mennonites are kind (uhuh,thats what I thought); Income IS in direct relation to how much tip I receive- The wealthier the patron,the less they have to give; The more pushy the person,the deeper their insecurities; Finally,I'm beginning to believe that GOD CRIES...GOD SMILES...but GOD NEVER LOOKS AT US WITH DISINTEREST.

     Several weeks ago I had a BRIGHT idea.A local church was hosting an acclaimed pianist for a free concert and as I love music and free things, what could be better?I talked two of my friends into going with me and we had an "experience" like unto which usually accompanies my BRIGHT ideas.We weren't the only ones who thought "music" and "free" the best of things and we found our selves in the center of a sea of senior citizens, a VERY crowded sea.I was privileged to be the one in my group seated by someone NOT in my group.If I were to practice marriage counseling,I would have practiced on this couple.There wasn't essentially anything wrong with them unless a husband who rattles on about his accomplishments and a wife who ignores said husband and upon sitting down immediately begins flipping through the song book(a hobby of hers) constitutes as wrong.Did you know you can determine the standards of a church by simply looking at a song book? No,as I said,they weren't in the throws of turmoil, but I listened to him for bout 5 min,nodded several times and through that,firmly established myself as an INTERESTED human being.I was given more musical information then any other concert goer that evening.I totally understood his wife but I wonder how long it would take to have a BETTER relationship if she would take the time to listen to her husband.To affirm.

    That evening of free music made me think about relationships far more then mozart.Waitressing is more then delivering food.My answer to the question I asked is the Herb,Thyme (more often spelled time).We all have it,but if we don't give it away,it will be taken away.And like I said before, I think God smiles,God cries,but he never looks at us with disinterest and He always has and always will have time.

    Ya'll have a SUPER week!  Sonya

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  • lets see,i love people, books, music, coffee & dark chocolate,and all things southern- except turnip greens

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  • "I know now that the world is not filled with strangers.It is full of other people-waiting only to be spoken to." ~Beth Day

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  • fluttrbyme
    life is going good,thanks for asking.twice even.:) i'm almost always busy but if i really try,i find time to sit and breath.for bout 5.5 min.but its good and after all the things i'v adjusted to,i'm wondering how the next half of my term is gonna go so,how u doin?
  • doseyrosey
    don't worry. from what i heard, found out, yeah, you don't need to be 21 for water. but thanks anyhow. how's life going for ya?
  • fluttrbyme
    actually,i don't know if there is an age limit for water,i'd guess its 18 if there is but waters only in the summer.long term nannys are supposed to be 21 BUT that isn't set in stone(not sure if thats supposed to be said or not) n e way,i can get u numbers if u want :)
  • doseyrosey
    hey girl. how's life going for you out west? you enjoying it? have a question for you. if i would want to come on WATER as a nanny or relief nanny, or whatever it is, do i need to be 21? or is that just for long term?